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I’m just gonna give you a brief rundown of how sex magick works for me, because I am not about to go into detail about that in public. I do not bone and tell.
So, sex magick takes advantage of the energy released at orgasm to get things done. Much like power raising through chanting, dancing, etc., sex magick involves sustained physical effort performed with your goal in mind, until you reach a peak where the power you’ve generated is released. It is a bit tricky, because it can be pretty tough to orgasm while you’re thinking of your bank account, an illness you’d like to overcome, or what have you. Climaxing, for me, is a very mental thing. It’s not at all easy to stay focused on a(n often unsexy) goal and get off at the same time, you know?
Sex magick also doesn’t have to involve two people– masturbating works just as well. Honestly, it can be a bit easier solo because you only have to worry about getting yourself off. The only caveat here is that you’ll only have your own power to work with, versus the combined energy of you and a partner or partners.
Some people use bodily fluids to dress candles, so that could also qualify as sex magick depending on what you’re trying to do. If I were a regular practitioner of sex magick, it’d also be neat to have dedicated toys. Maybe something like this yoni wand:
Do you practice sex magick? What kind of goals to you use it for?